Words on the surface appear to be the major means by which we humans communicate but in order to understand people, we need to pay closer attention to subtleties.
The Reasons You Should Worry About What Others Think of You
It is not mere actions and words that people observe, but the patterns they create. It is the patterns that emanate from the track record of your actions that people use in determining your character – i.e. what you are most likely inclined to do in a given situation. That alone is sufficient reason to pay attention to what they think about you