It is common knowledge that many people (especially women) usually pause to ask their partner “do you love me?”, especially when they are about to have sex (and especially when its the first time), and in a seemingly mindless way, this question is usually given a positive answer of “yes I love you” – which in most cases isn’t true; at least, not in the intended sense. Which then begs the question, why did they ask the question?
Don’t just go ahead and ruin a perfect relationship because they refused to fondly your sex organ or whatever genuine reason you might have. Relationships are way more than that. If the people you are going after are high class and worthy of being friends with you, then they should have no problem understanding this, and for crying out loud, this is actually a complement to them,