We have all heard about peer pressure, however for some unknown reason we seem to ignore it, but this can be really good if you know how to hack the effect
Don’t just go ahead and ruin a perfect relationship because they refused to fondly your sex organ or whatever genuine reason you might have. Relationships are way more than that. If the people you are going after are high class and worthy of being friends with you, then they should have no problem understanding this, and for crying out loud, this is actually a complement to them,
smile and the world would smile right back at you
There is a wise saying which goes like this “if you want to go fast go alone but if you want to go far go with people”, before you write me off as promoting something negative let me quickly clarify the point to you that you are already a gang member, you belong to a group of people called family, and you know for sure that whether you are right or wrong they would always come to your rescue
This is not about making friends, it’s not about segregation either, this is about generating momentum, it’s about influence, it’s about controlling your environment
when we head out in search for evidence to support our opinion. It is amazing how we would almost always find supporting evidence, this is because people’s opinions differ, and people only observe to see what they want to see – i.e an evidence that confirms their opinion.
The above phenomenon is known as “confirmation Bias”
Like in a chess game where you must keep the king safe at all cost, Kings in our lives are things we make sure we do not loose, it can be family, love, money, sex, drugs, religion (it really can be anything)
When it comes to getting others to see us the way we want (as trustworthy), the best thing to do is to work on ourselves so that when they look at us they see a trustworthy individual
n the society it is a common scene to watch the poor work the hardest job, while the rich sit in lavish offices doing their own brain works
Studying is necessary for do well in school, but is it necessary to do well in school?