9 Strategic Ways To Stop Being Lazy (Even When You Feel Unmotivated)

It’s okay to feel unmotivated. We all do. What’s not okay is letting that feeling run your life. Strategic Ways To Stop Being Lazy (Even When You Feel Unmotivated)

Laziness keeps many people stuck at a particular level in their lives. Not because they lack the ability to move forward, but because they postpone action when it matters most.

But here’s the hard truth: staying stuck and doing nothing because of laziness has a cost: It will keep you in the same place, day after day, while life quietly passes by.

Power of The Random Walk: Why Your Detours Are More Valuable Than Your Plans

We often imagine life as a straight line. Do X, get Y, or go from point A to point B. But most of us already know, life doesn’t always work out like that. 

In our treacherous yet beautiful reality, the path looks more like what mathematicians call a “random walk with drift.”. It is a messy, unpredictable journey influenced by detours: chaos, choices, failures, and fortunes.

The Alignment Conundrum: Why Personal Growth Can Feel Like a Lonely Purgatory.

We often begin our personal development journeys because we feel we need more or lack something. Often, it is the pain of where and how we are that drives us to seek growth.

But what many of us fail to realise is that personal development is not the same as acquiring more, or even success.

The Cuckoo Effect: How to Stop Nurturing Other People’s Dreams Instead of Your Own

While most people may not wish you harm on a very good day, it is important to realise that everyday they try to lay eggs of their values, opinions, ideas, wishes, expectations, or demands into your own life. And, those eggs, once they hatch, leverage your fears, ego, and other strong emotions to gradually compel you to nurture them.

The Selfishness Paradox: Why You Must Think of More Than Yourself To Get What You Want In Life

We all have our selfish desires, but achieving things that are truly grand or worthwhile often requires the input of more than one individual. Hence, to achieve our selfish desires, we often need to do selfless things. And, even when success comes, the wise can tell that the most important thing was the tribe (not the selfish prize).

3 Liberating Lessons From Overcoming Death Anxiety: How to Live Despite Fear And Uncertainty 

Going back to the year 2020—it was lockdown + death anxiety for me. I was tired of being stuck indoors, tired of the voices in my head telling me I was going to die soon. So when a friend invited me to some church, I tagged along, hoping for a change of scene. 

We got there, and the prophetess or whatever title she preferred, looked at me and said she saw a vision: I’d die in 2023.

Quit Seeking Validation: 7 Useful Strategies to Build Unquestionably Strong Confidence 

Many people believe they need others’ approval to feel good about themselves, but real confidence isn’t something others can give you; it’s something you cultivate from within.

In this post, we’ll explore why external validation is harmful and 7 useful strategies to build unquestionably strong confidence.