3 Dating Lessons I Learned From A Chef
Like all good things, a sweet relationship requires skill and patience. Here are 3 dating lessons I learned from a chef.
Relational
“The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.” – Henry Miller.
Do You Feel Stuck In a Phase In Life? [4 Tips To Get You Unstuck And Happy]
“Being stuck in a phase” is a term that is used to describe someone who is feeling like they are not making any progress in a particular aspect of their life. (This could be financial, emotional, physical, mental, and so on.)
Love Dilemma: How to Trust Your Gut and Make the Right Decision
Love dilemma is a complex, confusing, and counterintuitive feeling of attraction towards one or more people. If an individual is experiencing a love dilemma, they may feel overwhelmed with confusion and unhappiness if they try to ignore or fight it. On the other hand, if they allow themselves to go with the flow, they may experience a mix of happiness and anxiety.
Compassion For The Depressed: How To Respond To Someone Who Is Struggling
Some people are very good at hiding their struggles. They wipe their tears before they show up in public. Sometimes you only learn about their struggles on the suicide note they left.
Empathy Vs Compassion: The Dangers of Empathy And Why You Must Develop Compassion To Truly Help People
Having empathy means trying to personify a person’s perspective, emotions, and feelings.
It’s not just a feeling. It’s an ingrained feature of our species. It is as powerful as the sense of hunger or fear. Mirror neurons in the brain help you react by mimicking the activity of the brain of the sufferer.
Empathy is useful, but it has its dangers…
How To Be A Better Person [And Be Happy]:
Someone with good values (like love, honesty, loyalty, courage, etcetera) will seek and do the right things, even if it doesn’t feel good. While someone with bad values (like domination, violence, pleasure, etcetera) will seek and do the wrong things, most likely because it feels good.
How then do you shape your values, to nudge yourself into doing good deeds?
The Smell of Dead Bodies: The Hypocrisy in All of Us
When I was 13, I saw a dead body for the first time; and it was rotting.
A young man was caught and set ablaze earlier in the day, for stealing Garri at the waterside market…
Why You Shouldn’t Listen to People’s Opinions and Advice: The Best Life Advice Ever
If “good advice” exist and works all the time, why hasn’t everyone taken them and made their lives a thousand times better?
The reality is, no advice is good or bad in itself but is relative in contrast to different people and situations.
How To Be A Good Person According To Jesus Christ:
Even though Jesus made mention of places like Heaven, and Hell and the Bible listed laws and norms that may seem made-up or outdated in modern times, the teachings and lifestyle of Jesus Christ are still useful today (because they teach us how to be good people).
How Do You Deal With Intrapersonal Conflict?:
Norms are indispensable if we must develop as a society and as individuals. However, those societal standards or expectations may sometimes conflict with your interests and desires, and this leads to Intrapersonal or internal societal conflict.