Sex For The Right Reasons: This Is Why I Want To Make Love To You

You can’t force sex to do the work of love or love to do the work of sex. Sex For The Right Reasons This Is Why I Want To Make Love To You

We all embody experiences. When we interact with others we create even more experiences. From the way we look and communicate to the way we move and make love, there is a ripple of gestures and feelings that can generate delight or displeasure. And, at the extremes of these experiences, there is love and hate.  … Read more

Living an Absurd Life: How Do One Find Meaning in a Meaningless Existence?

I think and feel life is absurd.  Though, as a kid, I never thought of or felt this way. Back then, life was all about waking up, eating, playing, sleeping, and doing it all over again. In my little world, that was all there was and all that mattered. But, then, I was sent to … Read more

Maybe You Don’t Know What Commitment Entails: The Sacrifices That Come With a Serious Relationship

All my life I have been single. Friends have often labelled me as shy, afraid of commitment, or just unserious. None of those descriptions has quite felt right. Maybe beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, but I have often ended up being friends with one of the hottest or most intelligent ladies wherever … Read more

Confident Ignorance: The Power of Admitting That You Don’t Know.

The whole of humanity is mostly ignorant of the marvellous reality we find ourselves in. From the very functioning of our staggeringly complex brains to the existence of our incomprehensibly large universe, all we have are mostly clever, yet very broad assumptions of how things are and function. Assumptions that if you poke hard enough … Read more

21 Fun Things To Do With Your Crush [Perfect Ideas When Hanging Out Alone]

Guess what’s worse than straight-up rejection? Your crush refusing to hang out again, because they think you’re an unbearable bore. Telling your crush you like them is nice, but it is only the beginning. If you have no clue about anything fun, entertaining, or at least interesting to do when you are (alone) with your … Read more

Level Up: How To Reach Your Full Potential

Growing up, I was opportune to play a lot of video games. My favourite games were racing games (like Need For Speed) and adventure games (like God of War). And, the concept of levelling up was fundamental to these games. In Need For Speed, for example, you need a different class of cars to unlock … Read more

How to Grow Up: A Practical 10-Step Guide to Improving Your Character

Ever wondered why some Clergymen cheat on their partners or launder money, while some drug addicts are honest or hardworking? Well, being great in one aspect of our lives doesn’t mean we will be great in other areas. Just as Cristiano Ronaldo is a football legend but may suck at singing, so also we all … Read more

What It Means To Grow Up

“Grow Up” is part of our everyday language, though often thrown around by people who are displeased by the behaviour of another. But what does it mean to grow up?  The question almost sounds silly. Everyone already knows growth is simply an increase in size, complexity, or overall maturity. And, everyone expects it to be … Read more

Breaking Free From Patriarchy: What The Feminists Want From Society

Feminism – the fight for the rights of girls and women – has been going on for centuries. And, there has been great progress indeed. However, some issues still hold back the movement from fully emancipating girls and women from Patriarchy. One of these issues I believe is that some extreme, unfair, and unrealistic views … Read more

Adult Responsibilities Weighing You Down? Rediscover Your Childlike Attitude To Overcome

Too many adults are not happy. They dislike the responsibilities that come with adulthood. They’re dissatisfied with (the position they are in) the society and systems we’ve built and live in. Rather than being internally driven, they’re pushed to act by societal pressure. From work to relationships, life often feels like a chore. But it doesn’t have to be this way.