Pain exists. You can’t wish it away. It visits in many ways – getting sick, losing loved ones, having a breakup, getting fired, or even small daily annoyances like traffic, spilt drinks, misplaced keys, or a stubbed thumb. However, it…
Since pain is unavoidable, the most important thing becomes understanding the nature of the pain - Why is it happening? Who is triggering it? Who has the power to add to or remove it? What is it's rewards? Then you decide what to do (or not do)
It was at this point that it hit her, she came to realize that maybe her daughter didn’t just need a ton of money, but rather a mother who would show her the breath and depth of love
Sometimes you need to make out the chance to look at your pain, to stare deep into the abyss of your heart to see you pains, to behold and let freighting darkness fill you with awe and dissolution, letting you know what is lagging or lacking in your life and what needs to be added...
Don’t just go ahead and ruin a perfect relationship because they refused to fondly your sex organ or whatever genuine reason you might have. Relationships are way more than that. If the people you are going after are high class and worthy of being friends with you, then they should have no problem understanding this, and for crying out loud, this is actually a complement to them,
