Warning: this article about Mia Khalifa contains strong, and offensive, languages. it’s about an adult movie star and some life lessons we can learn from her
first of all, ill love to bring a word into focus, the word euphemism. it would be our code word throughout this article
What does euphemism mean?
a word or phrase used to avoid saying an unpleasant or offensive word.wikipedia
For instance, a person would use the word “darn” in place of the word “damn”
The figure of speech and its usage isn’t the major reason I wrote this article. This article is written to expose the dark side of our shared human nature, and in a way give you a wider perspective, make you less judgmental, and help you go for exactly what you want without feeling bad about it.
CLEAR MY BROWSER HISTORY WHEN I DIE
Emptied more frequently than we do our own waste bins, browser histories are one hell of a dump. Being a collection of all the places we’ve visited on the internet, browser histories are a digital blueprint of our nature, i.e who we truly are. Unfortunately not so many people are proud of who they are in secret, hence the frequent clearing of browser histories, as though to look away or cover the truth of who they truly are – their dark side.
Ranging from plotting scams, learning how to build explosives, finding a sex partner to those simply trying to view their fetish porn video – browser histories are cleared for obvious reasons.
But this article is still more than just about Mia Khalifa or Internet history, it’s about something much darker: it’s about our worship of appearances
MIA KHALIFA – The girl millions love secretly
2% of all queries on the internet are about pornography. Xvideos, being one of the leading porn sites on the internet records an estimate of about 100 billion page views each month. Another (popular) site Pornhub, reviewed their site to find that Americans spend an average of 10 mins 15 seconds viewing porn online per visitation.
In 2014 Mia Khalifa was recorded to be the most searched porn star on Pornhub, and later in the world. What made her famous was her decision to participate in a porn video that featured her wearing a hijab.
Hijab, as we know, is a Holy Attire of the Muslims, thus, it was understandable when it led to outrage…
MIA KHALIFA VS. ANGRY MUSLIMS
It was totally disrespectful, and as expected, the video pissed off a whole lot of Muslims, who apparently considered it offensive to see a girl on the hijab having sex with a white dude. Not to mention that the very video portrayed her and her “aunty” getting screwed simultaneously, thus pilling even more sacrilege upon the taboo.
How dare she?!!! How dare they?!!!
Death threats were sent to her and her life was literally in danger.
Though I still wonder how they got to see her without, you know, being active on porn sites?
Anyway, even though millions of people agreed (by liking and commenting) that the porn video was indeed a “good” one (judging by the quality of the acting and coupled with the innocence and beauty of Mia), she was still threatened because she was, you know, screwing around wearing a sacred attire.
However, her anonymous fan base increased (these were the people found of erasing Brower histories)
MIA KHALIFA AND THE WORLD OF EUPHERIANS
“Eupherians” is not a word, I made it up, because I can *giggles*
I’m not here to judge whether the porn industry is good or bad – there are countless people going about the debate already – My point rather is, whilst many people would enjoy a well-plotted and acted porn scene, not everyone would stand by the porn actor/actress because we always love to appear saintly, pure or at least sane. If it were not so, people wouldn’t be using Anonymous handles nor clear their browser histories
Hence, this is more than just Mia, or anything generally considered bad in the public eyes really, this is about people not openly supporting what they secretly crave themselves. This is about people who act hypocritically.
This is about how you can stop listening to the opinions of such people
As stated in my previous article about money, many people, for instance, frown at the fact that money makes the world go round, especially when it comes to topics like academics, religion, politics, and love.
Many people would love to delude themselves, claiming that money is not everything, yet the food we eat, the road we walk on and even the peace we enjoy in our various homes were all the by-products of money.
The person insisting that money can’t buy love would be the one demanding a romantic wedding with roses and unicorns, and the one preaching about the meaninglessness of money would be the one demanding an offering after service.
People get ridiculed and shamed for chasing after money, yet everyone needs money…
Get your shit together, money is
important, very important!
The point is, don’t listen to what people are saying, watch what they do
HOW IS “EUPHEMISM” AFFECTING US? – People worship appearances
People are very conscious of what they are associated with.
Many people don’t want to be seen demanding money all the time because they don’t want to appear greedy and selfish, many don’t want to be heard talking about sex all the time because they don’t want to appear immoral. This is also the attitude of billions of people towards several other matters.
…coating anger, lust, greed, selfishness, and our true nature only to find them sipping out in aggressive and passive-aggressive behaviors, and hatred and scorn and intolerance, just to mention a few.
The problem is that we have been conditioned to think that sex, money, fame, and enjoyment, in general, is bad, but since this is not particularly true, we subconsciously crave them, whilst consciously cover our track (or on our worse days, justify it).
Lack of money, sex, fame, and enjoyment could equally lead to all sorts of dark places, places such as robbery, rape, suicide, and depression just to mention a few. No one should be ashamed of wanting money, sex, fame, or any form of enjoyment really.
What each individual should seek is rather a way to enjoy life without hurting others.
Life is simple beyond good and bad. Things aren’t always black and white, in fact, they rarely are. Sometimes, people do things because of the situation they find themselves.
This isn’t justifying porn or greed, or any other thing really. It is simply questioning of the person judging. Why do you judge? Do you really know why it happened? Are you on your own pure?
On the other hand, it is a warning: What you are doing, is it the best approach? Should you really be going after money, or fame, or anything really in that manner?
AND THE WISEST MAN ON THE PLANET GIVES HIS OPINION
Solomon, also called Jedidiah, was, according to the Hebrew Bible, Old Testament, Quran, and Hadiths, a fabulously wealthy and wise king. He was recorded to have been the wisest man that ever lived.
According to Solomon, it is good to enjoy your life when you can and that includes having money, eating, drinking, and of course, having sex. These are not things any man should be ashamed of or deny. As a matter of fact, Solomon dedicated an entire book titled “The Songs of Solomon” to just flattering a young lady. That’s how much he was open about how he really felt about things or people.
Though he won’t support Mia shooting that porn video. Here’s how I know.
At this point, you would most likely try writing this entire article off as “B.S” as the “Eupherians” do, but things get even darker.
You’ll see the ugliness of this dark side when you realize that even for a good cause, in the beginning, when its outcome is still uncertain and too daring, very few, if any, would stand by you.
Life becomes much more fun when you realize that it was meant for you to live individually and not just participating in group activities, waiting for every single person’s opinion, validation, and support.
Whether you do good or bad, people would always judge you. Your duty is to stand by something and ignore the hissing crowd. The world is full of “Eupherians” who are good are forgetting their shortcomings
STAND FOR SOMETHING
The point is, in the end, not everyone would like you, no matter how hard you try. Hence, you should clearly state, declare, and go after what we truly desire and need because life is short.
If you want money, declare it and go after it as your life depended on it, (because it does)
If you want love, go after it.
If you want fame, do the necessary.
If you want to drink and be merry, the bottles are all yours.
Eat all you want.
But like Abraham Lincon once said
“Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.”Abraham Lincoln.
As long as it is the work of your hands, work which you have done without hurting your fellow humans. Like a hot knife through butter, cut through all obstacles with discipline and achieve your fucking dreams.
MIA KHALIFA – Good or Bad?
So, here is our beloved Mia, the one which millions of guys have “wanked off” watching, being judged as being bad and rotten…but is she? Is she really bad?
After the massive explosion that shook Beirut on August 4, 2020; the government announced that the explosion was due to “Fireworks”. This was ridiculous, and Mia was one of few people who spoke up, and even took to eBay to auction off her famous glasses. Within just six hours, bidding was at $11,400. However, by the end of the auction, the top bid was set at $100,000. This and other resources were pulled together by her and offered to the victims of the blast
“You will never meet Allah because the eyes of god will see who you truly are, and no amount of sex a woman can have will ever out-harm the inhumanity, suffering, and crimes you inflict on the Lebanese people”.Mia Khalifa
She has also gone on to support the fight against suicide and more…Read more about her good deeds here
MORE THAN GOLD
If there is anything that people respect more than money, it’s a shiny reputation. This is because, from observation, people respond to and worship appearances and reputation.
It’s the reason ex-convicts find it hard to get jobs and those living in countries where racism is still thriving find it hard to climb the social ladder.
Countless porn actors and actresses have committed and would still commit suicide because of this social phenomenon. Like earlier stated, many people are cautious of who they associate themselves with, because they want to look saintly or at least sane.
Simply put, the world would punish you for doing anything very daring, just like they punished and are still punishing Mia. But relax, there would always be someone who would stand by you. Even Mia is now married to Robert Sandberg, a chef – and they look happy together.
It takes 20 years to build a reputation and five minutes to ruin it. If you think about that, you’ll do things differentlyWarren Buffett
MIA KHALIFA QUITES PORN
In January 2015, Khalifa signed a long-term contract with Bang Bros company which required her to perform in multiple films every month. She decided to resign, she said:
“It was an eye-opener for me. I don’t want any of this, whether it’s positive or negative – but all of it was negative. I didn’t get too much into it about how my friends and family and relationships were suffering.”Mia Khalifa
Mia also took to ridiculing the industry for using and dumping her. She revealed in August 2019, that she only made $12,000 working in the industry, after which the industry refused to take down her videos, leaving her at the second-ranking pornstar three months after leaving the industry, generating an insane amount of revenue for the industry.
Below is an interview of her, talking about all these
WHAT YOU SHOULD PROBABLY DO
If you’ve been following this blog, then you must have come to understand that there is no single way of achieving success, and in fact, success is just whatever you define it to be.
That’s to say, there is no specific formula for everyone to apply to their lives in achieving their dreams. but there is a catch
As stated in this article here, you have to realize that the path to your success has already been walked by people of the past, and thus, you would be wise to learn from them. And no, it is not about listening to your parents.
The point is, read a damn book, watch tutorial videos online if you can’t get a master/mentor around, and voila! you get to know exactly what to do (in your unique life).
Remember it’s a gradual process, keep learning and trust the process.
WHAT WE’VE LEARNT SO FAR
- People hide how they feel and what they do.
- People are very cautious about what and who they associate themselves with.
- People easily judge and respond to appearances and reputation.
- You should be able to identify what is helpful and cut off unreasonable repulsion towards what you crave, for example, money, love, fame, enjoyment, etcetera.
- Remember that after crossing some lines, as Mia did, there is no turning back (but take comfort, there would be people who would understand and support you).
- Heed the warning of the statistics, always.
- Read a damn book!