Warning: this article about Mia Khalifa contains strong, offensive, and erotic languages. its about an adult movie star and some life lessons we can learn from her
first of all, ill love to bring a word into focus, the word euphemism. it would be our code word throughout this article
What does euphemism mean?
a word or phrase used to avoid saying an unpleasant or offensive word.wikipedia
For instance, a person would use the word “darn” in place of the word “damn”
The figure of speech and its usage isn’t the major reason I wrote this article. This article is written to expose the dark side of our shared human nature and in a way give you a wider perspective, make you less judgmental and help you go for exactly what you want without feeling bad about it.
CLEAR MY BROWSER HISTORY WHEN I DIE
Emptied by some folks more frequently than we do our own waste bins, this singular collection of the places we’ve visited on the internet is a digital blueprint of our basal nature, i.e who we truly are, who we don’t want people to see and the part we deny even to ourselves – our dark side.
Ranging from plotting scams, learning how to build explosives, finding a sex partner to those simply trying to view their fetish porn video of a little girl being sexually abused by her dad – browser histories are cleared for obvious reasons.
But this article is still more than just internet history, it’s about the darker side of human nature: it’s about our worship of appearances
MIA KHALIFA – The girl millions love secretly
2% of all queries on the internet are about pornography. Xvideos, being one of the leading porn sites on the internet records an estimate of about 100 billion page views each month. another site pornhub, reviewed their site to find that Americans spend an average of 10 mins 15 seconds viewing porn online, that’s on each visit.
Indeed, a staggering statistic when you come to realize the unlimited number of things that could be done on the internet and the fact that many people either deny watching porn or simply hide the files, whether hard or soft copy, whether hard or softcore.
In 2014 Mia Khalifa was recorded to be the most searched porn star on Pornhub, and later in the world. For some reason, she decided to participate in a porn video that featured her wearing a hijab. This was where all hell broke loose, or should I say, her fame and fortune.
MIA KHALIFA VS. ANGRY MUSLIMS
As expected, the video pissed off a whole lot of Muslims, who apparently considered it offensive to see a girl on the hijab having sex with a white dude. Not to mention that some of her videos portray a girl and her aunt, who was also putting on a hijab being screwed simultaneously, thus pilling even more sacrilege upon the taboo.
Death threats were sent to her and her life was literally in danger.
I wonder how they got to see her without, you know, being active on porn sites?
Anyway, even though millions of people agreed that the porn video was indeed a good one, judging by the quality of the acting and coupled with the innocence and beauty of Mia, she was still threatened because she was, you know, screwing around wearing a sacred attire.
MIA KHALIFA AND THE WORLD OF EUPHERIANS
“Eupherians” is not a word, I made it up.
This is not to say that the porn industry is good or bad, the point is, whilst many people would enjoy a well-plotted and acted porn scene, not everyone would stand by the porn actor/actress because we always love to appear saintly, pure or at least sane.
This is more than just Mia, or anything generally considered bad in the public, this is about people not openly supporting what they secretly crave themselves and even in a way fighting it in public. For instance money
I’ll get back to Mia shortly. Let me talk about this first.
DIRTY MONEY OR CLEAN MONEY
As stated in my previous article about money, many people seem to frown at the fact that money literally makes the world go round, especially when it comes to academics, religion, politics, and love.
Many people would love to delude themselves, claiming that money is not everything, yet the food we eat, the road we walk on, hell! even the peace we enjoy in our various homes were all the by-products of money.
The person insisting that money can’t buy love would be the one demanding a romantic wedding with roses and unicorns and the one preaching about the meaninglessness of money would be the one demanding an offering after service.
People get ridiculed and shamed for chasing after money, yet everyone needs money.
Get your shit together, money is
important, very important!
HOW IS “EUPHEMISM” AFFECTING US? – People worship appearances
People are conscious of what they are associated with, many people don’t want to be seen demanding money all the time because they don’t want to appear greedy and selfish, many don’t want to be heard talking about sex all the time because they don’t want to appear immoral, and so is the attitude towards several other matters.
Coating anger, lust, greed, selfishness, and our true nature only to find them sipping out in aggressive and passive-aggressive behaviors, and hatred and scorn and intolerance just to mention a few.
The problem is that we have been conditioned to think that sex, money, fame and enjoyment in general is bad but the reverse is the case. Lack of money, sex, fame and enjoyment could equally lead to all sort of dark places, places such as robbery, rape, suicide and depression just to mention a few.
Few openly stand out to express or even support an idea, talk more of instigating or supporting a course of action, yet they scorn those who do in the background, laughing at them and sometimes even fighting them openly – desiring to pull everyone down into their smelly pit of mediocrity.
AND THE WISEST MAN ON THE PLANET GIVES HIS OPINION
Solomon, also called Jedidiah, was, according to the Hebrew Bible, Old Testament, Quran, and Hadiths, a fabulously wealthy and wise king. He was recorded to have been the wisest man that ever lived.
According to Solomon, it is good to enjoy your life when you can and that includes having money, eating, drinking and of course, having sex. These are not things any man should be ashamed of or deny. As a matter of fact, Solomon dedicated an entire book titled “The Songs of Solomon” to just flattering a young lady. That’s how much he was open about how he really felt about things or people.
Though he won’t support Mia shooting that porn video. Here’s how I know.
At this point, you would most likely try writing this entire article off as “B.S” as the “Eupherians” do, but things get even darker.
You’ll see the ugliness of this dark side when you realize that even for a good cause, in the beginning, when its outcome is still uncertain and too daring, very few, if any, would stand by you. This is when you literally feel helpless and abandoned.
That’s why Solomon even said that if you keep observing the weather, you would never sow. Life becomes much more fun when you realize that it was meant for you to live individually and not just participating in group activities, waiting for every single person’s validation and support.
No one would roll your boat for you. If you don’t do it yourself, you’ll remain stagnant.
STAND FOR SOMETHING
The point is, in the end, not everyone would like you, no matter how hard you try. You should all clearly state, declare and go after what we truly desire and need because life is short.
If you want money, declare it and go after it as your life depended on it, because it does
If you want love, go after it.
If you want fame, do the necessary.
If you want to drink and be merry, the bottles are all yours.
Eat all you want.
like Abraham Lincon once said
“Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm.”Abraham Lincoln.
As long as it is the work of your hands, work which you have done without hurting your fellow humans. Like a hot knife through butter, cut through all obstacles with discipline and achieve your fucking dreams.
MIA KHALIFA – her decisions and actions
So, here is our beloved Mia, the one which millions of guys have wanked off watching, but is what she did right or wrong?
If there is anything that beats money, it’s a shiny reputation. This is because, from observation, people respond to and worship appearances and reputation.
It’s the reason ex-convicts find it hard to get jobs and those living in countries where racism is still thriving find it hard to climb the social ladder.
Countless porn actors and actresses have committed and would still commit suicide because of this social phenomenon. Like earlier stated, many people are cautious of who they associate themselves with, because they want to look saintly or at least sane.
Simply put, the world would punish you for doing anything very daring, just like they punished and are still punishing Mia, but as always, you would always find someone to stand by you when you dare, just as Mia is married to Robert Sandberg, he’s a chef – they look happy and have money too.
In January 2015, Khalifa signed a long-term contract with Bang Bros company which required her to perform in multiple films every month. She decided to resign, she said:
“It was an eye-opener for me. I don’t want any of this, whether it’s positive or negative – but all of it was negative. I didn’t get too much into it about how my friends and family and relationships were suffering.”Mia Khalifa
Of recent, Mia has taken to ridicule the industry for using and dumping her. She revealed in August 2019, that she only made $12,000 working in porn, after which the industry refused to take down her videos, leaving her at the second-ranking pornstar three months after leaving the industry, generating an insane amount of revenue for the industry.
Below is an interview of her, talking about all these
WHAT YOU SHOULD PROBABLY DO
If you’ve been following this blog, then you must have come to understand that there is no single way of achieving success, and in fact, success is just what you define it to be.
That’s to say, there is no specific formula for everyone to apply to their lives in achieving their dreams. but there is a catch
As stated in this article here, you have to realize that the path to your success has already been walked by people of the past, and thus, you would be wise to learn from them. And no, it is not about listening to your parents.
The point is, read a damn book, watch tutorial videos online if you can’t get a master/mentor around, and voila, you get to know exactly what to do.
Remember it’s a gradual process, keep learning and trust the process.
WHAT WE’VE LEARNT SO FAR
- People hide how they feel and what they do.
- People are very cautious about what and who they associate themselves with.
- People easily judge and respond to appearances and reputation.
- You should be able to identify what is helpful and cut off unreasonable repulsion towards. what you crave, for example, money, love, fame, enjoyment, etcetera.
- Remember that after crossing some lines, as Mia did, there is no turning back.
- Heed the warning of the statistics, always.
- Read a damn book!
so here are the links, in case you want to find out more about porn and Mia