People are conscious of what they are associated with, many people don’t want to be seen demanding money all the time because they don’t want to appear greedy and selfish, many don’t want to be heard talking about sex all the time because they don’t want to appear immoral, and so is the attitude towards several other matters.
The one secret to achieving your dreams isn’t really a secret, in fact, its so commonplace that no one notices it, yet it controls all our fates
In my first year in the university, I was kind of nerdy, I didn’t even know how to shake people and snap my finger (snapping fingers after a handshake is like a ritual in Nigeria, mind you). I felt really out of place, it was the university, no parents, no relations not even former friends, all things were new and you had to associate, to build a new circle of friends, it was indeed horrible not to know something this basic, the lifeblood of University socialization.(more…)
smile and the world would smile right back at you
There’s a lot of painful to remember history and facts coupled with subtle cynic acts when it comes to Nigerian educational history, all of which seem to be playing a discord in our lucid minds, a sound which both adults and children alike seem not to make any rhythm of, Read more…
There is a wise saying which goes like this “if you want to go fast go alone but if you want to go far go with people”, before you write me off as promoting something negative let me quickly clarify the point to you that you are already a gang member, you belong to a group of people called family, and you know for sure that whether you are right or wrong they would always come to your rescue
I have learnt silence from the talkative, toleration from the intolerant, and kindness form the unkind; yet strange, I am ungrateful to these teachers-Kahill Gibran