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“The only thing we never get enough of is love; and the only thing we never give enough of is love.” – Henry Miller.

Managing Ego: How To Stop Taking Yourself Too Seriously

While having some ego (or sense of pride) can be healthy, when it is left to run amok, we begin to think ourselves too perfect, or god-like. Managing Ego How To Stop Taking Yoursel

Here is the thing, deep down we know we are not perfect. It is impossible to be perfect. No one has looks, finances, relationships, and all nailed to the T (at least, not all the time). And even those who manage to score high in seemingly all domains of their lives, do so at a great cost – they are under constant pressure; and in some cases, might even feel a sort of second-hand embarrassment from those around them who think this whole charade of perfection is absolute madness and want to just be themselves. 

Why You May Resent The People You Love

the best thing about you can also be the worst thing about you, because every trait we value has a counterpart we struggle to accept. 

The extraordinary qualities you admire in others often come with a shadow side that’s harder to acknowledge. Just like one person's guardian angel may be another's angel of death.

The Art of Sharing Sensitive Stories: Talking About Hard Topics Without Hurting Anyone

You see, every word we speak is laden with meaning. It is the stories of people captured in syllables. It's events that have happened over and over again. And the experiences of my friends, no matter how unique they might seem (to them or even me), are ubiquitous to humanity. This is also true for my experiences, your experiences, or the experiences of anyone really…

Why Long-distance Relationships Deserve Your 100%

Distance has a way of testing you in ways that no amount of effort can fix. Miscommunication happens. Timing feels off. Sexual needs can strain the bond. Circumstances beyond your control create cracks where none existed before. It’s not because you didn’t try hard enough. It’s because love, as beautiful as it is, doesn’t exist outside reality. And sometimes, reality can be against you.