You can make girls beg to be with you by being your best self, and employing a few simple psychological tricks
One day whilst walking along the streets with my cousin sister, a hyper-excited boy called out to her, but she turned around, gave him a one-word reply, rolled her eyes, and continued on our convo
If you give me your undivided attention and read to the bottom of this post, I would show you exactly what that 14-years-old boy could have done to win her love, and make her beg for his attention – even if 20 other rich and older men were competing against him for her attention.
Cool? Okay, let us proceed
I, being the crazy older cousin, threw in a sneaky question to find out more about what just happened. She sighed and said that the boy has been drooling over her for ages now. And when I pressed on a little more, I came to discover that it wasn’t just this 14-year-old boy who was taking shots at her. In fact, guys my age and even older have been bombarding this little girl with corny, direct, and even offensive proposals.
She was just 14 as well, and barely had boobs.
Yet, she had already started experiencing a torrential downpour of sexual advancements – something she doesn’t even properly understand yet. She is being constantly barraged by unending streams of horny teenagers, pedophiles, and an occasional onslaught of lesbians.
She has been saying no to money, jewelry, wigs, phones, shoes, and a whole lot of things that I can’t possibly begin to conjure up in my mind. And here was this 14-years-old, pimply-faced boy trying to compete.
That 14-year-old boy had no chance: for a start, he wasn’t confident, he didn’t have the pickup lines or the cash to lure her in. He couldn’t go deep into conversation with her, because like I have been trying to point out, she has been in extremely persuasive conversations from playboys and men thrice her age with years of experience and has been able to hold her ground. What chance does this 14-year-old have?
He didn’t stand a chance. How many pick-up lines could he spin from his head? How dynamic can he make the conversation? How persuasive can he get? What does he have to offer? Which experience does he even rely on?
Her one-word of reply was the best he could get, and he barely even earned it – with his shaky voice and uncombed nappy hair. He couldn’t even afford a perfume for himself.
It is no surprise she rolled her eyes.
In every imaginable way, he was no competition.
But was he?
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If an average girl is exposed to a plethora of competing men, what really is the advantage one must have to become the winner – to be the one who gets to kiss her?
Because, to a certain point, every young man becomes fully capable of taking care of a lady: there are at least 2 guys with a car and an apartment going after her. There are at least 3 very wise and quick-witted young men in the mix. Another battalion of Macho men standing in line.
So, who would she pick?
And more importantly, what is that one quality that would distinguish you, and make you the one?
Well, I’ll tell you.
I would give you this one secret that would make every lady you use it on to beg, and cry her eyes out just for your love and attention. And you would be the one to pick amongst the multitude of ladies craving you.
Yes. I would tell you the secret and you won’t even have to pay a dime for it.
This secret is so simple that you would think that it’s nonsense. In fact, you might even laugh, and think I’m unserious, or a little crazy. But what can I say, I have already made the promise? Haven’t I?
So here it is, or more correctly, this is what it’s not.
It is not telling the girl “I love you”, “I care for you”, or “I am willing to jump in front of a speeding train just for you”. Nope. It is not even calling and texting her every day. It is not by liking and commenting on her posts. It is not in buying her expensive gifts on her birthday. It is none of those. In fact, what you have to do hardly concerns her.
I want you to sit back and think about it. Who is this girl already tripping for?
Because, whether you admit it or not, there is someone she is already drooling over, and it isn’t you. That person may not even be in the same town as you or her. He may not even be from the same country. Heck! He may not even be of the same race. But he is there. Behind an LCD, behind a TV. Somewhere in a TV show, in a commercial, in a football pitch, in a movie, doing his thing….
He is a celebrity. A star. He is living his best life, and he’s single – why should he be committed to one lady when every woman can be his?
Oh! You never thought of that.
You never imagined what it would feel like if you saw a girl who was identical to your celebrity crush. A girl who talks, walks, and behaves exactly like that girl you just sit and admire on TV. The girl you know you prolly have no chance to be with.
Now let me tell you. If you don’t want to be another horny young man amongst several other horny young men, who she just glazes over like a bunch of losers or dogs, if you don’t want her to list you amongst the league of men with potbellies and enthusiastic guys who’ve sent her unsolicited “dick pics”, then you must learn to be a celebrity.
You must transform yourself into the kind of person she would be longing to approach.
See, I get it, there are ladies who are easily swayed by money – this is why brothels exist in the first place. There are also ladies who are starved of attention who would swallow any half-baked compliments you throw at them – who are willing for anyone and anything to have sex with them as long as it calls them sweet names. But my best guess is that you don’t want any of those.
I suspect you want someone special – your crush. The lady you look up to with admiration, but who doesn’t seem to reciprocate your love, care, and attention.
I feel your pain.
And that is why I’m going to relieve you of it.
But first, it’s going to sting a little.
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See, giving her more attention, making her laugh, or buying her more stuff won’t necessarily win her over. If anything, it can backfire – and then you have her saving your phone number as “my ATM”, or “My special clown”.
The truth is, the average girl has been exposed to enough sample of men to know that humans are mostly self-serving creatures. They have also come across the few who genuinely want their good, but that is usually the exception – and hardly enough to convince her to date …
Like Selena Gomez once said, “the heart want’s what it wants”.
Just like you desire that girl, she also desires someone. And until she gets what she wants she may never be happy. She may never want to commit to you no matter how much genuine love, care, and attention you shower on her.
In fact, having been exposed to enough “bad” guys, most girls would quickly make a “good” guy their friend – whilst this is good for them, and you also get to speak to them as often as you like, it is bad news for you because you have just been “friend-zoned” (which means, no romance – no sex)
She likes you a lot no doubt. But there is a “BUT”
It is hard to find someone who says “I love you”, or “I care about you” sincerely, so why do you think she wouldn’t want you close to her? Of course, she would want you by her side. She would want you to be that friend she can call when she’s in trouble, in need, or just want a shoulder to cry on.
Hence you are stuck in a dilemma:
- Option A: become her ATM
- Option B: become her friend
- Option C: don’t do anything (don’t give gifts, or show care) and suffer being ignored.
So, why is this so hard? What can you do? what chance do you have?
I would tell you.
I would show you something you can start doing today to drastically raise your chances of stratospheric proportions.
In fact, I would tell you why I think that 14 years old boy has a better chance of laying with her than the 30 years old guy with abs, a car, a house, and a lot of sweet words.
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Haven’t you been listening? She wants a celebrity!!!
Do you still remember that cool guy in secondary school who the girls flocked around?
That classmate who could dance in social gatherings.
Yeah, the one who performed best in sports – in soccer, table tennis or racing for example.
The one who always walked with a spring in his steps.
The one who felt larger than life.
The one who was doing at least 3 girls in the same 30 square ft classroom.
Oh! boy, you forgot.
How could you forget something like that?
I know you wondered how he did it. Well, this is how he did it. He was a mini-celebrity.
He was focused on sports, or raping, or dancing, or academics, or anything really.
He was focused on himself.
He was focused on being his best self.
If you want ladies to be chasing you, then make yourself chase worthy. STOP CHASING!!!
If you chase, you instantly get drafted alongside the plethora of guys waiting in line – the ones she rolls her eyes over.
And this is the exact spot you don’t want to be in. In fact, you don’t even want to be the one she chooses from that group – you don’t want to be the winner.
You don’t want to be the guy she “considers” because she is bored, couldn’t get her crush to turn her direction, or was getting too close to menopause
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I couldn’t believe how easy this was once I figured it out.
Like Jay Z once said “when I walked into a room I used to wonder if they liked me, now I wonder if I like them”
I once used to drool over girls, until I realized that that was a losing game.
You know what they say, “don’t hate the player, hate the game.”. So, I switched games
The best thing, and the most appreciated thing you could possibly offer a lady – which is irresistible – is your best self. Show her your celebrity self.
If you could become that Artist, that writer, that _______(insert your profession/passion), then you have already won.
The funny thing about this approach is that if you adopt it strictly, you might end up upgrading your taste of ladies. You may not even like your crush any longer – she may not even be that attractive to you anymore.
All you have to do is focus on your self-development. Simple.
All you have to do is to keep upgrading yourself.
To do this, sick to
- Reading more
- Practicing (your craft) more
- Putting in more hours and work (into your business or job)
- Improving your communication and language skills
- Working out more
- Eating healthy
- Buffing up your fashion/dress sense
- Cultivation healthy/meaningful friendships
- Connecting with family more
- Becoming more charitable – to the less privileged
- Becoming warmer to people
- Listening more than you talk
- Becoming less ill-tempered
- Being more forgiving
- Becoming more self-aware and in control of your whims
- Becoming self-driven and ambitious
The more you do all this, the more you would begin to attract hotter, and more advanced women, who don’t just want your money or pickup lines. Ladies who wouldn’t stress you, and who you have nothing to prove to. Ladies you won’t even struggle to have. Ladies, you would see it as an added blessing to your life.
Once you use this secret approach, you would begin to meet ladies who are equally
- Self-driven and ambitious
- Who works out (i.e. who are hot and sexy)
- Who are kind, grateful, loving, caring, etc.
- Who would listens to you
- Who cares about others (who aren’t selfish)?
- Who is forgiving
- Who eat healthily
- Who controls their desires?
- Who are intelligent
- Who dress nice
- Who would inspire you to be more?
It is no surprise then that you find Brad Pit dating Angelina Jolie, or Simi dating Adekunle Gold.
If you approach dating with the mindset of manipulation, you end up attracting manipulative partners. If you want to show off, then you end up with superficial partners.
But, if you go the long and hard way: if you develop yourself, and become a successful and admirable person (in whatever field you find yourself), then you would, without an atom of doubt attract the ladies in that field.
So, which is it going to be?
Would you be that 14-years-old boy who keeps shooting his shot, rather than go study?
If you give yourself enough time to develop and become that attractive man, then you might end up cringing at the idea that you once drooled over that lady.
So, calm down.
Pick up lines, or any other technique you use would be ineffective if you are not ready.
If you are well developed, you would have no need for pickup lines, as you can literally pick up any line from the environment (weather, her cloth, the chatter on the TV, etc.) and initiate an interesting conversation.
A conversation in which your intelligence and personality would be exposed
So, tell me again? If you aren’t a confident, self-driven, and ambitious young man, how are you going to fare in the long hurl of the convo? Are you planning on lying, or you desire to keep hammering her with endless platitudes of your love for her?
I don’t know?
Maybe I should give you some time to think about it?
A Self-Help Writer And Editor Who Keeps It Simple (Yet Elegant)