Crafting a Better Nigeria: Why Your Work Should Be More Than A Means To Money 

Do your little bit of good where you are; it's those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world. - Desmond Tutu Crafting a Better Nigeria Why Your Work Should Be Mor

We perceive other countries as the proverbial promised lands: clean, safe and functional. Even the internet doesn’t fail to remind us each day of Tokyo’s cherry blossoms, Paris’ romantic cafes, and the Caribbean beaches, where the sand kisses your feet and the breeze wraps around bare skin.

And so, we dream. We wish. We plan to leave.

Framing, Context, and Content: How Thoughts and Thinking (Re)shape Your Reality

Your thoughts become your destiny Framing, Context, and Content How Thoughts and Thinking (Re)shape Your Reality

Our objective reality—which includes our relationships, careers, and all other aspects of our lives—is significantly shaped by our subjective reality—which is essentially the content of our minds: our thoughts and the way we think. This is because our thoughts and thinking processes directly influence our emotions, decisions, and, ultimately, our behaviours. 

Straw: Why We Must Care a Little More

It's not really the last straw that breaks the camel's back. It's the absence of people willing to remove a few straws before it's too late. Straw Why We Must Care a Little More

I saw the movie Straw last month. And I was so angry at the critics that I started to fear for myself: How could a message so clear, loud, and urgent be so completely missed?

Straw is a very simple movie. It wasn’t like a Christopher Nolan film with layers of twists and hidden meanings. It was a straightforward Tyler Perry movie that depicted the unfolding of a horrible day in a woman’s life.

And even if it is mostly fiction, it’s important to remember that nothing in this movie is impossible, or hasn’t in some way happened to a very real person somewhere.

Always Sorting It Out Alone Is Causing You Unnecessary Suffering: 5 Steps to Getting Help From Others Without Losing Respect

We go into the dark room alone. But that's where dark thoughts grow Always Sorting It Out Alone Is Causing You Unnecessary Suffering Steps to Getting Help From Others Without Losi

Many years ago, I took the bold step of moving out of my parents’ house to live alone. Why? Because I wanted to find my path as a person, make my own decisions, and suffer the consequences myself. I believed that’s how it should be. Until a person can make uninfluenced decisions, they can’t take … Read more

If Love Feels Like Effort, Something Is Wrong: The Secret to Fulfilling Relationships and Marriage 

When you're truly in love with someone, their happiness becomes a primary concern. If Love Feels Like Effort, Something Is Wrong The Secret to Fulfilling Relationships and Marriag

Yesterday, on my way from work, I passed a boutique and instinctively started looking for something my wife would love. Next to it was another boutique that sold menswear; interestingly, I walked past without even glancing. Then it hit me: almost everything I buy these days is for her, not me. Not because she asks. Not because I have to. But because I want to. That’s what love does: it redirects your focus without effort. That’s why I believe: if love feels like effort, something is wrong.

9 Strategic Ways To Stop Being Lazy (Even When You Feel Unmotivated)

It’s okay to feel unmotivated. We all do. What’s not okay is letting that feeling run your life. Strategic Ways To Stop Being Lazy (Even When You Feel Unmotivated)

Laziness keeps many people stuck at a particular level in their lives. Not because they lack the ability to move forward, but because they postpone action when it matters most.

But here’s the hard truth: staying stuck and doing nothing because of laziness has a cost: It will keep you in the same place, day after day, while life quietly passes by.

Power of The Random Walk: Why Your Detours Are More Valuable Than Your Plans

“There is nothing for you to go back and live over, or fix, or feel regret about now. Every part of your life has unfolded just right.” – Esther Hicks. Power of The Random Walk Wh

We often imagine life as a straight line. Do X, get Y, or go from point A to point B. But most of us already know, life doesn’t always work out like that. 

In our treacherous yet beautiful reality, the path looks more like what mathematicians call a “random walk with drift.”. It is a messy, unpredictable journey influenced by detours: chaos, choices, failures, and fortunes.