If Love Feels Like Effort, Something Is Wrong: The Secret to Fulfilling Relationships and Marriage 

When you're truly in love with someone, their happiness becomes a primary concern. If Love Feels Like Effort, Something Is Wrong The Secret to Fulfilling Relationships and Marriag

Yesterday, on my way from work, I passed a boutique and instinctively started looking for something my wife would love. Next to it was another boutique that sold menswear; interestingly, I walked past without even glancing. Then it hit me: almost everything I buy these days is for her, not me. Not because she asks. Not because I have to. But because I want to. That’s what love does: it redirects your focus without effort. That’s why I believe: if love feels like effort, something is wrong.